Okay, you’ve got to admit that the title of this post had you intrigued. First of all, the part about the blind sex has nothing to do with Daredevil Noir. Unless Alex Irvine has included something about Matt having sex in his four-issue mini series. Anyway, that’s not something I would know anything about. All I know is that there’s a Daredevil Noir #1 preview here and an interview with writer Alex Irvine here, both from Comic Book Resources.
Okay, now that that’s covered, let’s move on to the real reason Dakota found Matt so irresistible. Apparently, she’s bought into the same myth that fueled this report (dated April 1): That blind people are insanely good in bed. We can only wonder if the experience lived up to her expectations. Thanks to my friend and fellow fan Alice for sending me this!
Blindness and Sexuality:
Researching Myths and Facts Summary Report:
Distributed by: National Data Distribution Center (NDDC)
April 1, 2009, Atlanta GeorgiaThe two hundredth anniversary of the birth of Louis Braille is being celebrated by the US mint with the production of a silver coin commemorating the man who created the modern reading system used by many blind people. Unfortunately, although blind people work and live normal lives, they are still different in many ways and their experiences are a matter of curiosity amongst the sighted population. For most of us, the question, “What is it like to be blind?,” has entered our minds more than once.
Research, some of it useful and much of it not, about how people who are blind perceive the world, abounds. One of the more interesting topics of study is sexuality among the blind. The story goes that blind people are incredible sexual partners–somehow being extremely sensitive to their partners and, being able to stimulate them far more than the average person.
Masters and Johnson were so intrigued by this subject that they collected data over several years from those who had had sex with blind people. Surprisingly, what they thought would be myths, turned out to be true. The results were stunning. On average, women rated their blind partners 9.1 on a scale of 10. The average rating was five for sighted partners.
“This research has been duplicated several times,” says Mary Roach, author of 2008 best seller Bonk: the Curious Coupling of Science and Sex. The data hasn’t attracted much attention because blindness is such a low incidence event. “We usually print things that have broad interest. And, even though this indicates that blind people are incredibly sexual, there aren’t really enough of them to go around.”
Comments from sighted partners were astounding. “He seemed like he knew my soul,” from a 23 year old female. “Her tongue knew just how to touch every part of me if you know what I mean,” from a college male. One woman commented, “The things he could do with his fingers were beyond description,” in this survey. “It’s not that he was built bigger than other men, it just seemed like he touched me inside with it all over,” she said with a shy smile.
When William Masters was asked, in a 1971 interview, why he didn’t draw more attention to these findings he said, “I didn’t know anything about blindness. We were publishing information of general interest about sexuality and this just didn’t fit that mold. Perhaps some day researchers will help us understand why blind people have such incredible sexual capacities and we’ll be able to use that information to increase the abilities of others. Until then, a very few lucky men and women will experience the phenomena of sex with a blind person.”
There is a downside to this research. When interviewed, blind people generally expressed frustration about sexuality. Broadly speaking, they divided sighted people into three groups. First is the group who simply want to have sex with them for the thrill and experience of it. “We feel used,” was the most common thing reported. Second, was the group who simply couldn’t see themselves with a blind husband or wife. “They want to be with us, but don’t see us as fathers and mothers, for example,” was often heard. The third group were those who “get it” as one blind man put it. “They can see beyond blindness and accept us for who we are. Blindness just fades into the background and becomes another characteristic. “
The sad truth is that although blind people work, raise families, travel independently and generally speaking, live normal lives, the public perception is the opposite. The image of the helpless beggar still lurks in our minds. Sighted people report that the fear of blindness overwelms their rationality. “I know that I shouldn’t let blindness interfere with how I think about my partner, but, I can’t help it,” said a young college student engaged to a blind physicist working at NASA. “Yes, he has money, and yes, he’s sexy, and oh, my god, can he please me, if you know what I mean. The hardest thing is getting over this image of him as a helpless blind man. We sail, bike ride and horse back ride. I can’t think of anything he can’t do except drive, but, I’ll admit, the image of a helpless blind man still haunts me. People look at him with such pity and I just want to scream, ‘You don’t get it you fools.’” But she admits that making the decision to marry is difficult.
Chad, a young blind college student says he finds the whole sex thing a bit distracting. “Sure I can please women more than my sighted friends can, and frankly, it’s because they just don’t pay attention to women and what their bodies and hearts are saying. Women will tell you everything you need to know if you just listen and feel.”
We give you all of this information with the caveat that perhaps only one in six thousand people is an eligible blind man or woman, so, happy searching.
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Assistive technology in Daredevil
by Christine on September 16, 2009 in Blindness & Disability, Character Basics, Commentary
We all know that Matt Murdock has an arsenal of abilities and tricks up his sleeve which make it possible for him to do things us mere mortals cannot. Because of his heightened senses, he not only functions believably (well, sort of) as a superhero, but manages to compensate for his lack of sight in many ways. However, in the absence of normal vision – which the colorless and generally enigmatic radar sense does not provide – there are certain tasks which Matt would approach in about the same way as a non-powered blind person. If you’ve read this far and find yourself thinking “Wait just a minute now, Daredevil can see better than all of us!” you need to go read my old post “My other senses more than compensate” where you will be proven wrong.
At the end of the day, most fans would probably agree that Matt would (and should) have problems with all kinds of screens, displays or exclusively visual indicators. In fact, any and all information rendered exclusively visually and in two-dimensions (with the exception of print, provided he is close enough to touch it) lie beyond what his senses can decipher. In the real world, the blind use a wide range of assistive technology to access information or accomplish tasks for which eyesight is otherwise necessary. Many of these tools and gadgets would probably just gather dust in Matt Murdock’s closet since he gets by without them. However, there are many devices that should have a place in the Daredevil comic, if only as background elements to create a better sense of realism in the book.
In this post, I will be looking at the few instances of any kind of assistive device being featured in the Daredevil comic, and use them as examples of how to do it right. Most of these examples are from volume two, hopefully a sign that including pieces of technology that most readers would probably think of as being pretty cool, is increasingly being viewed a positive addition to how Daredevil stories are told rather than the sign of weakness many writers seemed to have feared in decades past.
Read more under the cut –>
Tagged as: Alex Maleev, Blindness/disability, Bob Gale, Brian Michael Bendis, D. G. Chichester, Dave Ross, Ed Brubaker, Frank Miller, Joe Quesada, Kevin Smith, Mark Pennington, Michael Lark, Scott McDaniel
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